From Social Anxiety to Sisterhood

What will “Centa Co Circle” be?

Centa Co Circle will be a women-only social and creative club for autistic women. It will provide a calm, supportive environment where members will be able to socialise, build friendships, and take part in arts and crafts, if they choose.

Who are Centa Co?

Centa Co was established in 2009 and has been delivering day support for autistic adults and adults with a learning disability initially in Gillingham and now Chatham. Although a private limited company, Centa Co is a contracted provider of day support services for Medway Council and Kent County Council. Until now there has been little take-up of our service by autistic females and females with a learning disability and we want to change this by offering them a service just for them. 

What is Centa Co’s website?

https://centa-co.com

You can see Google reviews of our day centre by going to our Google page

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What will be the main focus of Centa Co Circle?

The focus of Centa Co Circle will be on:

Social connection

Friendship

Feeling safe and included

Being yourself without pressure or expectation

Arts and crafts will be offered as a gentle, optional activity to support social interaction.

Where will the club be located?

Centa Co Circle will be situated at Sun Pier House, Chatham, just opposite the Medway Street day centre, postcode ME4 4HA. There will be parking available.

When will Centa Co Circle start?

The club will start on Wednesday 11th of February 2026.

Which days will the club run?

Centa Co Circle will run on Wednesday afternoons 1:45 p.m. till 3:45 p.m. This may expand in the future though.

Who will be able to attend Centa Co Circle?

All members will need to be 18 years of age, female and need to be autistic and that is because they have a shared experience and likely to have a similar style of social interaction. 

Why was the word "Circle" chosen?

1. Circle Represents Safety and Equality

A circle has no hierarchy—no “top” or “bottom.”

This mirrors the ethos of a supportive club where:

- Everyone is equal

- No one is singled out / placed under pressure

- Members feel safe, contained, and respected

2. Circles Symbolise Belonging and Inclusion

A circle implies:

- Being included

- Being “inside” rather than outside

- A shared space where everyone has a place

This directly aligns with autistic females’ common experiences of social isolation and the need for a clear sense of belonging.

3. Predictability and Completeness

Circles are:

- Closed and complete

- Predictable in shape

- Continuous, with no sharp edges

This resonates well with autistic adults who often value:

- Structure

- Predictability

- Calm, non-threatening environments

4. Circle as Conversation and Social Space

Traditionally, people gather in circles to:

- Talk

- Share

- Create together

- Listen without interruption

- Contribute without moving to the front 

5. A “Circle” suggests:

- Optional participation

- Gentle social engagement

- Being present without expectation to speak

- This is especially suitable for autistic females who may prefer parallel participation rather than forced interaction.

Who will be able to attend Centa Co Circle?

All members will need to be 18 years of age, female and need to be autistic and that is because they have a shared experience and likely to have a similar style of social interaction. There is very little available for this client group and Centa Co Circle addresses this unmet need. 

Can someone with a learning disability join?

Only if they are also autistic. This means that a person having a learning disability without autism means that person will not qualify to join but we can signpost them to other organisations. The Equality Act 2010 permits this as the legitimate aim of the club is to provide for the unmet needs of a sub-section of the population, namely female, autistic adults.

Will a formal autism diagnosis be required?

An autism diagnosis will be required. 

Can members come accompanied by their own one to one Support Worker / PA?

Yes but that person must be female as this will be a female only environment.circle of members only

Will the club be really women-only?

Yes. Centa Co Circle will be a women-only club, and all staff supporting the group will be female. This approach is intended to promote emotional safety, comfort, and ease of social interaction.

Is having an all women club legal? 

Yes. Centa Co Circle autistic women-only service is in accordance with the Equality Act 2010, where single-sex provision is permitted as a proportionate means of achieving legitimate aims, including emotional safety, wellbeing, and meaningful social inclusion for autistic women

A women-only club for autistic women is lawful in the UK because:

The Equality Act 2010 explicitly permits single-sex services

The aims (safety, inclusion, wellbeing, participation) are legitimate

The approach is proportionate

It addresses documented unmet needs

It promotes substantive equality, not exclusion

What will be the age range of the members?

18 to 70

How much will it cost?

£20.00 to £30.00 per session - still to be decided (though council funding may be available)

Can members bring their own arts and crafts materials?

Yes. Members will be welcome to bring their own arts and crafts materials if they wish.

Will hot and cold drinks be included in the fee?

Yes. 

Will members have to talk?

No. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. We understand that autistic individuals sometimes like to have their own space and not interact too much or even at all. We're going to set up a "chill corner" where members can sit on their own and it is understood they don't really want to talk.

Will there be a WhatsApp group set up by Centa Co  for  members?

No. We believe this could actually cause social anxiety e.g. when to send a message, when to reply, what to say, context confusion, what is expected etc

Do I have to attend every week? 

No. We understand the autistic people, especially females, can get very drained owing to their autism. This could be owing to sleep patterns or just getting drained by coping, especially after a busy day the day before where there was maybe a lot of social interaction! Likewise, you don't have to stay for the whole session. It's completely up to you how long you stay.

Will members have to take part in arts and crafts?

No. Participation will be entirely optional.

Members will be free to:

Take part in arts and crafts

Socialise with others

Do a combination of both

Or simply spend time in the space in a way that feels comfortable

Why was Centa Co Circle set up...what is it addressing?

Many autistic females feel misunderstood or overlooked in mainstream services, especially because their experiences can be less visible than autistic males

Autistic females often mask heavily in everyday life, leading to exhaustion, anxiety, and low self-esteem

Autistic females often present differently than males (e.g., masking, social fatigue, shutting down, internalised stress), and typical services don’t always account for that

Repeated social rejection, underachievement due to anxiety or late diagnosis and low confidence despite high ability

Isolation is a huge issue for many autistic females, who may struggle to find peers they “fit” with

Why is art and crafts a good activity for Centa Co Circle?

Arts and crafts are especially powerful for autistic individuals because they:

• Reduce anxiety and stress
• Provide a calming, repetitive focus
• Help regulate emotions without needing words
• For autistic females who struggle to articulate feelings verbally, creative activity becomes a safe emotional outlet
• Arts and crafts can be therapeutic 
• Facilitates peer bnding in a natural way
• Other reasons for the suitability of arts and crafts are:
• A sense of accomplishment
• Visible progress
• Positive reinforcement
• Provides a calming, repetitive focus
• Many autistic women find social conversation draining or overwhelming
• Creative activities allow connection side-by-side rather than face-to-face
• Improve fine motor skills
• Support planning and sequencing
• Build patience and problem-solving skills
• Arts and crafts can be carefully chosen to support sensory needs:
• Textures (paper, clay, fabric)
• Repetitive motions (cutting, threading, colouring)
• Predictable processes
• Sessions can be adapted for sensory sensitivity, offering control and choice, which is empowering
• Creative activity often leads to a “flow state,” where:
• Time feels manageable
• Anxiety reduces
• Concentration improves
• This can be especially helpful for autistic females who experience rumination, overthinking, or mental overload
• Autistic females frequently struggle with identity after years of masking...creative expression helps members:
• Explore who they are
• Develop personal style
• Express individuality without judgement
• This supports emotional wellbeing and long-term self-acceptance.
• Shared creative tasks:
• Give people something to do together
• Remove pressure to “make small talk”
• Create natural opportunities for shared pride and conversation
• Friendships often form organically through making things together.